Looking after your own heath and well-being while caring for a loved one is as important as theirs. Being a caregiver can be very challenging and it can be difficult to make time for yourself.
If you stay physically, mentally and emotionally healthy you will be in a better position to support your loved one. It can also improve your relationship with them. Here are some of our top tips on looking after yourself whether you’re a spouse, partner, family member or friend.
“Being a caregiver can be very challenging and it can be difficult to make time for yourself.”
Six tips to help caregivers
1. Be honest about your own needs
It may be easy to appear to health care professionals, friends and family as if you’re coping very well. Sometimes carers find themselves being overly positive to disguise how hard their job truly is. Make sure you ask and get the help you truly deserve as if outwardly you appear to be coping, others might not know or realise you’re in need of more help.
2. Accept kindness from other people
It’s ok to take time to voice your worries or concerns to another if they have a listening ear and want to help. If you’re offered help, don’t be afraid to accept it if you trust that person.
3. Find an online community of like minded caregivers to get advice and share your experiences with
Having a group of people you can relate to when you might be in a new or changing situation can provide valuable insight into coping strategies, making life a little less stressful or tips on improving your relationship with your loved one.
Most charities have online communities as well as social media providing an expanding platform for connecting carer communities together.
4. Ask for help
As a carer you’re entitled to something called a Carer’s Assessment from your local authority. This helps to identify what support you are providing (normally more than you realise) and can help to formalise caring arrangements for your loved ones in the format both of you would like them.
It is also important to accept help when it is offered and to explain to your loved one how important you feel getting help is to you.
5. Trust your instinct
As a spouse, partner, family member or friend, you know that person better than anyone. Therefore if you think something could be done or changed to improve their well-being, you’re probably right.
6. Find out about options for respite
Looking after yourself and making sure you still have time to be you is important in keeping your batteries charged. Having a break from caring responsibilities provides a valuable lifeline to a carergiver to allow them to have headspace to do something or be somewhere, just for themselves. This might involve taking part in a hobby, doing something you find relaxing, going to an event or even just being at home alone to take a breather.
This guest blog was supplied by Emma, from Adorno Companions
Biography
My social care career started in 2008 when I took a part time job as a support worker for vulnerable children and adults in both residential and respite settings. I also have experience of resettling people back into their own homes after rehabilitation for an acquired brain injury.
After graduating from University I went on to gain a Diploma in Leadership and Management as well as being involved in a number of project and programme management roles.
During this time, my grandmother developed Alzheimer’s Disease and was provided with less than adequate social support, despite the expensive care home fees! As I lost my own mother aged 9, this was particularly devastating as my grandmother and I were very close. This spurred me on to, one day, look to improve social support for vulnerable people.
After a brief spell in marketing, and the birth of my first daughter, Adorno Companions was established.
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